Women's Codependency Coach
Take Your Life Back From His Addiction
Clarity first. Decisions later. Your life NOW.
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Hi, I'm Ellen Krogh Let's
Does this sound like you?
You’ve cried. Yelled. Begged. Googled. Found help. Bought books. Even prayed.
And still—nothing changed. Except you. You’re more exhausted. More stuck. More unsure of yourself.
MAYBE
you haven’t tried the one thing that actually changes everything. Not fixing him. Not understanding addiction better. Not trying harder. And that is
GETTING SUPPORT
And starting your healing journey. I know that sounds strange when it’s so obvious that he needs help. But here’s the truth most women don’t want to hear at first: You do too because you’ve been carrying too much, for too long. There is nothing to be ashamed of here.
ASKING FOR HELP IS TRUE STRENGTH AND POWER
You can learn it sooner than I did? You don’t have to be as thick-headed and stubborn as me.
I Know Addiction
I grew up with it, married it (twice), and coached it for almost 20 years.
Now? I help you — the woman who loves him — find yourself again.
That’s the story I lived!
OFF ALL THE THINGS HOLDING WOMEN BACK
loving an addicted man deserves its own damn category
About me
If you’re a woman who loves a man dealing with addiction, I’m here to help you figure things out. Get some clarity, make new decisions, and stop second-guessing what you should do. Whether you decide to stay, go, or don't know
For almost 20 years, I worked as a therapist helping good people drowning in addiction getting there life back.
But now? I’m here for you—the woman who loves him, fights for him, tries harder and loses sleep over him find your freedom no matter what he decides to do
I know that side. I’ve lived it.
Coaching with me is allways
AND WHY I SWITCHED SIDES
They Took the First Step
“I almost didn’t book the call because I thought, ‘It’s not that bad.’ But I was exhausted from thinking about him all the time. After one session, I felt clearer than I had in years. For the first time, someone focused on me — not on fixing him. I stopped feeling crazy. That alone changed everything.”
- SOFIE, 28, MALMÖ
“I came in thinking we would talk about his addiction. Instead, we talked about me — my patterns, my boundaries, my choices. It wasn’t comfortable, but it was empowering. I realized I wasn’t stuck. I was just scared. That first step gave me my power back.”
- ANNA, 42, NEW YORK
I'M SORRY
But You Only Have Two Choices
Keep doing what you have been doing and hoping something will change
CHOISE #1
CHOISE #2
Turn towards the only person you can change and that is YOU
THIS COULD BE YOU
Living in a love relationship that feel steady, supportive, and real.
Where your needs matter. Where you’re not overthinking, overgiving, or holding everything together alone. Feeling safe in your relationships. Seen. Supported. Steady.
Not because he finally changed—but because you did. Healthy relationships don’t start with fixing someone else. They start on the inside. They start with you.
Talk or Collaborating?
If you're interested in a first talk or collaboration, inviting me to speak at your event, or having me on your podcast, I’d love to connect.
YOU DON'T HAVE TO
Live in constant reaction to his addiction and his behavior.
Hop over to
@Codependencyclarity
I would love to see you there
@codependencyclarity is where I share real talk, healing tools, and nervous system wisdom and lots more for women who love addicted men.
Because you’re not alone. And I’ve been there.
I’d love for you to join me there.
For the reminders you need.
For the strength you already have.
For the healing you deserve.
Let’s break the cycle—together.
